He was ill and had to leave his people and I am finding it really hard. And there are numerous examples of dogs rescuing humans, traits also observed in combat Marines and expressed in their mantra "Semper Fidelis" (To understand the kinship of dogs and humans, we might look at the qualities that humans think their friends should have. they are remembering the pain of loss.They wouldn’t be a good friend . Why am I so well liked.Tenth: I would seek help in healing past hurts...here are some free resourcesFrom within the United States or Canada call: 1-800-421-9600 Eleventh: Start a book study group with your friends and choose some GREAT personal development books and study the book together. Coming after a breakup was like a double hit. there are some stories in the comments that could be helpful to you.

I'm sick of myself, having these terrible thoughts. I hate myself so much it hurts, what should I do? I am completely devastated and well actually cant believe how insensitive people on this post can be This was my child and I see only darkness I dont expect everyone to understand but rather respect the grief... no wonder my dog was the best person I knewi know exactly how you feel. she was only 5 so we were expecting 8 to 10 more years and she was so bright and alive and all of the sudden she sank like a rock.right now, if i see a toy of hers i breakdown. (these thoughts come from ourselves as well as from TV, Friends, Family, Internet, etc.) To some of us without children these ARE our children.

i still shake at the time of her death..i do it without thinking. Everyday. I'm sick of myself, having these terrible thoughts. I lost one of my best friends to suicide and I lost the closest thing to me when my cat died. I'm trying to take yoga and meet people. A debilitating loss. Like it’s a compassionate gesture that’s is rude. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. He brought me so much happiness. I just felt the original comment was a little extra was the only reason I commented . Many people have known their dogs longer than their wives or children, so it is not surprising that their loss can be devastating even if it's not sudden. I feel terrible every day. 6 Telltale Signs of Passive-Aggressive Behavior You shouldn’t speak your mind because your ideas are no good anyway. let people do what they need to do to heal! This article helped, especially reading people’s stories. It's okay though, you definitely are not alone.Yes, it actually hurts. My cat didn't choose to end his life, my cat loved me unconditionally, and my cat fought to stay alive actually beating death a year prior when the vet said it was time.

The last of one’s freedoms is to choose one’s attitude in any given circumstance.”Note: By the time we are age 4 50% of our beliefs, attitudes and ideas about the world are set in our mind .By the time we are 8 -- 80% of our beliefs, attitudes and ideas about the world are set in our mind By the time we are 18 95% of our beliefs, attitudes and ideas about the world are set in our mind---these beliefs, attitudes and ideas are set in our minds by our experiences with those in our lives and everything we see or hear. "I know how you feel because my dog died", was something I heard after my child died.I've lost both, and while it may not be the same, it isn't all that different either. i don't believe there is anything that can be said to a parent who is grieving the loss of a child that is helpful quite frankly. Through the years I always thought I would one day have a child of my own. That’s why it’s offensive and that why people care . i fell apart.