thanks for typing this up, i wish i could upvote more than onceThis is the only comment I read and its pretty damn good. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts Odds are good the other person had a good reason to break up with you--even if they didn't tell you what it is. You don't wake up one morning and realize you're over your ex.But as impossible as it may seem right now, you can start moving on a little more each day.And who knows? u/stopndrop08.

7 comments. Because they've already done the grieving part. 100% Upvoted. It probably did not make the break up easier for us, but it sure is nice to still be able to talk to one another sometimes. Little did she know that I was sprinting to grow up so I would be able to provide better for both of us.

The easiest thing is go to ones that are already created. 2 … Single >>>Right on point with this.

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But after a while, you stop hoping that life will be that way some day, and instead it becomes purely hypothetical.I guess what I'm saying is there's no cure but time, and it's often slow and incomplete. Or, if they did and you think it wasn't a good reason, well, it must have been to them.You may never know or understand the reason. If it hurts to see her on Facebook just unfollow.And in my opinion putting yourself out there as fast as you can is a good idea. share . If you did not initiate the breakup, well... That's a lot harder.I know it's easy to fall down that slippery slope of thoughts; thoughts like "We were meant to be together," "S/he was perfect," "If they knew how much I care about them," "We could make this work if s/he would give me another chance."

/ Not put out anymore albums together after stankonia? 67% Upvoted. That's why weeks after you break up, they're on instagram and facebook having a great time with their friends. / Not put out anymore albums together after stankonia?

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So I called him up and said do you want to do this anymore and he just flat out said no. save hide report. You simply need to get over it. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Why did outkast break up? The last paragraph will ring true.The more time you waste thinking about or lashing out at your ex, the longer itll take to get over her + that stupid ish you did. They can always lie if you break no contact and ask how they’re doing but you’ll always have a question in your head “do they really miss me.” And just be stuck. This thread is archived. You've probably come to associate seeing that with texts from them when they come. save hide report. They gave you permission to love someone else when they left.Even so, it's also okay to miss your ex. Dopamine is a powerful chemical in your brain. Then, at school we are both gonna play water polo and the teams will practice together. This will pass.change the background screen on your phone. It was my first real relationship. Go out and do things that make you happy. They won’t with each other. What upset me the most is that he fell off completely due to a new friend group and drugs and I really do wish I could help him out but I guess there's a good reason for us going our separate ways. We play for the same club for water polo. Maybe one day, you'll look back on that relationship and realize that you are over it, and you're a stronger person because of it, and you may even be glad it happened.As someone who is having difficulty getting over my recently-ex girlfriend, this is some of the realest shit i have ever heard, and it was cathartic to read. Only they were able to use your love to help … whether or not the next OutKast album will have them recording together again, Andre did say everything was tight within the group as he put break up rumors to rest. I’m not sure why they don’t wanna admit they grew out of the creative process with each other. Good luck. You have to accept that answers may never come.No amount of googling "how to get my ex back" will help you move on. It's okay to remember their quirks, their endearing imperfections, and to allow yourself to wonder what life would be like if you'd stayed together. Just as you took time to fall in love you will need time to get over them. Why did Outkast break up?

Plus we had some good time together. The hardest part for me (was...and still is) not trying to be negative towards them. funny the way this read first read, but i will not answer unless i see the true words written.They did. These thoughts are natural, but they're not necessarily true. Nothing helps as much forgetting a women as fucking another one.Just recovered from one. It is easy to have some serious regrets but you are right. First, disconnect yourself from your ex, meaning delete her from all social media and whatnot. And why do people rate 3k over Big Boi? I find it's better to resign yourself to singleness, allow yourself to feel the pain and the loss of the break up, and let your feelings take their course.

She felt guilty that I was moving forward as a person while she was still "picking [her] ass" and couldn't decide what she wanted to do in life. Sort by. Sort by. level 1. I can't just disconnect..Good idea and so true. I'm still on good turns with some of my exes, never deleted their facebook, calling them at their birthdays etc. Your brain has created channels for your ex that release dopamine and now that they are gone you are in withdrawal. Everything that you're going through right now, they've already been through it. Keep them coming!If you initiated the breakup, remember that you did it for a good reason.